My First Time

So I'm in college, taking a Human Sexuality course. I grew up in a smal farming community so you can say that my high school sexual education was less than informative. I had a more radical mother than most so I had a better knowledge than most, plus I had a little experience. But attending this class at a large university was still a little shocking. But I digress...

Recently we watched a movie called "My First Time." As the title hints it interview people about losing the sacred V-card. The age they lost their virginity ranged from 11 to mid twenties. Some had romantic stories others had shocking ones. Let me say though they were all more detailed and suspensful than mine.

It was just before my 16th birthday and I just really wanted to get it out of the way, so to say. I know people put a lot of value on virginity which is good for some, but I'm a curious person. I had heard that it hurt and I had a feeling it would be awkward. I just happened to have a long-term boyfriend at the time and we discussed it.

I had a birthday party several weeks before my birthday just so my parents wouldn't suspect anything(sneaky I know). I drank way too much and passed out way to early, about 8:30pm. But I puked and rallied so to say and later that night I was no longer a virgin. I don't really remember it, but after having sex with the same boy sober I'm glad I don't.

We're no longer together, but there's no hard feelings. I trusted him and he did his job and didn't talk any crap. It was less than romantic and I don't have any regrets. So I think that my experience was less than thrilling.